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“I’m Right and My Spouse Is Wrong, So It’s Not My Job to Get Us Off the Crazy Cycle!” - Part 1

“I’m Right and My Spouse Is Wrong, So It’s Not My Job to Get Us Off the Crazy Cycle!” - Part 1

Long ago I discovered a disheartening and detrimental pattern that drains a married couple of the positive vitality they experienced earlier in their relationship, and still long to experience now, when they do not apply a specific scripture to their marriage.

“I’m Right and My Spouse Is Wrong, So It’s Not My Job to Get Us Off the Crazy Cycle!” - Part 1

Does God Reveal What Our Fellowship In Heaven Will Be Like With Him And Other Believers?

Does God Reveal What Our Fellowship In Heaven Will Be Like With Him And Other Believers?

Our fellowship is with God the Father, Jesus His Son, and the Holy Spirit. Paul launches 1 Corinthians with this: "God is faithful, through whom you were called into fellowship with His Son, Jesus Christ our Lord” (1:9).

Does God Reveal What Our Fellowship In Heaven Will Be Like With Him And Other Believers?

Finding Win-Win Solutions in Marriage

Finding Win-Win Solutions in Marriage

Finding win-win solutions in marriage means both partners feel satisfied with the outcome. This requires acknowledging and validating each other’s perspectives.

Finding Win-Win Solutions in Marriage

How Can We Counter The Struggle Of Feeling Insignificant As Only One Out Of A Billion Others In God’s Creation?

How Can We Counter The Struggle Of Feeling Insignificant As Only One Out Of A Billion Others In God’s Creation?

The Bible declares clearly that God created us. We are not here by accident. We have purpose and meaning. Furthermore, in all that God created in the universe, mankind is elevated above all creation.

How Can We Counter The Struggle Of Feeling Insignificant As Only One Out Of A Billion Others In God’s Creation?

How Is the Holy Spirit Convicting You?

How Is the Holy Spirit Convicting You?

On His last night with the disciples, Jesus shared with them about the One who would come after Him. “And He, when He comes, will convict the world regarding sin, and righteousness, and judgment: regarding sin, because they do not believe in Me; and regarding righteousness, because I am going to the Father and you no longer are going to see Me; and regarding judgment, because the ruler of this world has been judged” (John 16:8).

How Is the Holy Spirit Convicting You?

Does God Reveal What Our Fellowship In Heaven Will Be Like With Him And Other Believers?

Does God Reveal What Our Fellowship In Heaven Will Be Like With Him And Other Believers?

Does God Reveal What Our Fellowship In Heaven Will Be Like With Him And Other Believers?

Finding Win-Win Solutions in Marriage

Finding Win-Win Solutions in Marriage

Finding Win-Win Solutions in Marriage

How Can We Counter The Struggle Of Feeling Insignificant As Only One Out Of A Billion Others In God’s Creation?

How Can We Counter The Struggle Of Feeling Insignificant As Only One Out Of A Billion Others In God’s Creation?

How Can We Counter The Struggle Of Feeling Insignificant As Only One Out Of A Billion Others In God’s Creation?

How Is the Holy Spirit Convicting You?

How Is the Holy Spirit Convicting You?

How Is the Holy Spirit Convicting You?

Why Do Some Wives Not Hear the Heart of Their Husbands?

Why Do Some Wives Not Hear the Heart of Their Husbands?

Famed physicist Stephen Hawking once said that women are the most intriguing mystery he ever came upon during his lifetime. Thirteenth-century poet Rumi agreed, writing, “A woman is a mystery to guide a wise and open man.”

Why Do Some Wives Not Hear the Heart of Their Husbands?

Can the Successful Businessman Learn the Skills to Have a Successful Marriage Too?

Can the Successful Businessman Learn the Skills to Have a Successful Marriage Too?

I have spoken to and counseled countless numbers of extremely successful professionals—Fortune 500 company executives, NFL coaches and general managers, professional athletes, church ministry leaders, and many others at the top of their game.

Can the Successful Businessman Learn the Skills to Have a Successful Marriage Too?

Beyond Natural Laws: Exploring Origins, Quantum Mechanics, and Biblical Wonders

Beyond Natural Laws: Exploring Origins, Quantum Mechanics, and Biblical Wonders

In science, attempting to describe the origin of the cosmos remains an enigma beyond the reach of empirical inquiry. The events that transpired during and before the Big Bang (the name scientists give to the beginning of the universe as we know it) defy conventional understanding, transcending the boundaries of our known laws of nature.

Beyond Natural Laws: Exploring Origins, Quantum Mechanics, and Biblical Wonders

Though She Could Divorce, a Wife Chooses to Stay

Though She Could Divorce, a Wife Chooses to Stay

In Matthew 19:9, Jesus said, “And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.” Put another way, if a spouse has committed adultery, this kind of immorality is grounds for the marriage’s dissolution.

Though She Could Divorce, a Wife Chooses to Stay

Do You Erupt with Anger Even When There Was No Malicious Intent to Begin With?

Do You Erupt with Anger Even When There Was No Malicious Intent to Begin With?

Think back to your last few arguments with your spouse. The times when something he or she did or said really set you off. Maybe you were fuming mad, even if for only a few moments. Perhaps you stirred angry in bed or vented with your friend about how upset you had become with your spouse.

Do You Erupt with Anger Even When There Was No Malicious Intent to Begin With?

Is Your Marriage Stuck in a Cycle? We’ve Got a Name for That (And a Plan!)

Is Your Marriage Stuck in a Cycle? We’ve Got a Name for That (And a Plan!)

We’ve all at some point entered a room, flipped the light switch, and discovered that the lights won’t come on. When this happens, what is usually the next thing we do? Right, we try it a second time. Maybe even a third time. But short of the rare situation where we learn our first failed attempt to turn on the light was merely a result of us not flipping the switch all the way, did our second and third attempts produce different results? Not at all.

Is Your Marriage Stuck in a Cycle? We’ve Got a Name for That (And a Plan!)

Pornography Destroys the Heart of a Wife and the Marriage

Pornography Destroys the Heart of a Wife and the Marriage

In Exodus 20:14, when God first gave Moses and the Israelites the Ten Commandments, He listed plain and simple: “You shall not commit adultery.” Later, during Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount, He reemphasized this command: “You have heard it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery’” (Matthew 5:27). And, oddly enough, the world agrees with this!

Pornography Destroys the Heart of a Wife and the Marriage

Practice With The Minor Conflict, Because The Major One Is Coming!

Practice With The Minor Conflict, Because The Major One Is Coming!

I put together an online course a few years ago on the Win-Win Marriage in which I provide participants a six-step process for finding win-win.

Practice With The Minor Conflict, Because The Major One Is Coming!

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