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I Thought I'd Never Close Off My Spirit To My Spouse - Part 1
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I Thought I'd Never Close Off My Spirit To My Spouse - Part 1

Emerson examines the often unspoken struggles that can erode even the most cherished marriages. Addressing the profound pain and disappointment felt by many spouses, he unpacks the concept of “hardness of heart” as it pertains to marriage, exploring how unresolved conflicts and self-protective walls can replace the intimacy God designed for couples.

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29:12
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I Thought I'd Never Close Off My Spirit To My Spouse - Part 1
Solomon and the Shulammite – His Unheeded Counsel, Transfer of Affection, and Lust
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Solomon and the Shulammite – His Unheeded Counsel, Transfer of Affection, and Lust

Emerson discusses the life of Solomon, exploring the themes of temptation, wisdom, and the importance of faithfulness in marriage. He highlights how even the wisest individuals can fall prey to their desires and the consequences of unheeded counsel.

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Solomon and the Shulammite – His Unheeded Counsel, Transfer of Affection, and Lust
Moving the Needle: Conversations That Spark Incremental Shifts in Understanding
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Moving the Needle: Conversations That Spark Incremental Shifts in Understanding

In this podcast episode, Emerson Eggerichs dives into the concept of "Moving the Needle" in conversations, focusing on the art of navigating contentious social and political issues with grace and wisdom. He emphasizes the significance of a patient and grounded approach, aiming for incremental shifts in understanding rather than expecting immediate or dramatic changes in perspective.

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Christian Life
Moving the Needle: Conversations That Spark Incremental Shifts in Understanding
Rachel and Jacob: Her Desires and Unmet Expectations and His Discernment and Honesty - Part 2
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Rachel and Jacob: Her Desires and Unmet Expectations and His Discernment and Honesty - Part 2

In Part 2 Emerson shares how Jacob’s defensive reaction to Rachel’s demand for children reveals the destructive impact of unmet expectations and emotional outbursts in a marriage.

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Rachel and Jacob: Her Desires and Unmet Expectations and His Discernment and Honesty - Part 2
Rachel and Jacob: Her Desires and Unmet Expectations and His Discernment and Honesty - Part 1
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Rachel and Jacob: Her Desires and Unmet Expectations and His Discernment and Honesty - Part 1

Explore the timeless story of Rachel and Jacob, a narrative rich with emotional struggles, unmet expectations, and communication missteps in this 2 part podcast.

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28:27
Marriage
Rachel and Jacob: Her Desires and Unmet Expectations and His Discernment and Honesty - Part 1
Solomon and the Shulammite – His Unheeded Counsel, Transfer of Affection, and Lust

Solomon and the Shulammite – His Unheeded Counsel, Transfer of Affection, and Lust

Emerson discusses the life of Solomon, exploring the themes of temptation, wisdom, and the importance of faithfulness in marriage. He highlights how even the wisest individuals can fall prey to their desires and the consequences of unheeded counsel.

Marriage
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178
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40:31
Solomon and the Shulammite – His Unheeded Counsel, Transfer of Affection, and Lust
Moving the Needle: Conversations That Spark Incremental Shifts in Understanding

Moving the Needle: Conversations That Spark Incremental Shifts in Understanding

In this podcast episode, Emerson Eggerichs dives into the concept of "Moving the Needle" in conversations, focusing on the art of navigating contentious social and political issues with grace and wisdom. He emphasizes the significance of a patient and grounded approach, aiming for incremental shifts in understanding rather than expecting immediate or dramatic changes in perspective.

Christian Life
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33:10
Moving the Needle: Conversations That Spark Incremental Shifts in Understanding
Rachel and Jacob: Her Desires and Unmet Expectations and His Discernment and Honesty - Part 2

Rachel and Jacob: Her Desires and Unmet Expectations and His Discernment and Honesty - Part 2

In Part 2 Emerson shares how Jacob’s defensive reaction to Rachel’s demand for children reveals the destructive impact of unmet expectations and emotional outbursts in a marriage.

Marriage
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21:55
Rachel and Jacob: Her Desires and Unmet Expectations and His Discernment and Honesty - Part 2
Rachel and Jacob: Her Desires and Unmet Expectations and His Discernment and Honesty - Part 1

Rachel and Jacob: Her Desires and Unmet Expectations and His Discernment and Honesty - Part 1

Explore the timeless story of Rachel and Jacob, a narrative rich with emotional struggles, unmet expectations, and communication missteps in this 2 part podcast.

Marriage
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28:27
Rachel and Jacob: Her Desires and Unmet Expectations and His Discernment and Honesty - Part 1
Therapy First, Theology Second?

Therapy First, Theology Second?

In this episode, Emerson discusses the importance of prioritizing theology over therapy in understanding marriage and relationships. He shares his journey of studying male and female differences, emphasizing the need for a biblical foundation in counseling.

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Therapy First, Theology Second?
Part 4 - Living Above the Bar: 12 Qualities the World Values and Expects to See in Believers

Part 4 - Living Above the Bar: 12 Qualities the World Values and Expects to See in Believers

In this final episode of the series "Living Above the Bar," Emerson explore three more key qualities the world values and expects to see in believers: Time Management (Time Is Money), Health and Wellness (You Are What You Eat), and Reflection and Restoration (You Cannot Pour From an Empty Cup).

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Part 4 - Living Above the Bar: 12 Qualities the World Values and Expects to See in Believers
Part 3 - Living Above the Bar: 12 Qualities the World Values and Expects to See in Believers

Part 3 - Living Above the Bar: 12 Qualities the World Values and Expects to See in Believers

In Part 3 the focus shifts to three more qualities the world values and expects to see in believers. Emerson addresses Critical and Caring Thinking (Think Outside the Box), Lifelong Learning (You’re Never Too Old to Learn), and Financial Prudence (A Penny Saved Is a Penny Earned).

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Part 3 - Living Above the Bar: 12 Qualities the World Values and Expects to See in Believers
Part 2 - Living Above the Bar: 12 Qualities the World Values and Expects to See in Believers

Part 2 - Living Above the Bar: 12 Qualities the World Values and Expects to See in Believers

In part two of this series, the focus is on living "above the bar" by embodying key qualities the world values, such as Creative Problem-Solving (If at First You Don’t Succeed, Try Again), Resilience and Adaptability (Bend but Do Not Break), and Self-Discipline and Hard Work (Rome Wasn’t Built in a Day).

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Part 2 - Living Above the Bar: 12 Qualities the World Values and Expects to See in Believers
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I Thought I'd Never Close Off My Spirit To My Spouse - Part 1

I Thought I'd Never Close Off My Spirit To My Spouse - Part 1

Emerson examines the often unspoken struggles that can erode even the most cherished marriages. Addressing the profound pain and disappointment felt by many spouses, he unpacks the concept of “hardness of heart” as it pertains to marriage, exploring how unresolved conflicts and self-protective walls can replace the intimacy God designed for couples.

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I Thought I'd Never Close Off My Spirit To My Spouse - Part 1
Solomon and the Shulammite – His Unheeded Counsel, Transfer of Affection, and Lust

Solomon and the Shulammite – His Unheeded Counsel, Transfer of Affection, and Lust

Emerson discusses the life of Solomon, exploring the themes of temptation, wisdom, and the importance of faithfulness in marriage. He highlights how even the wisest individuals can fall prey to their desires and the consequences of unheeded counsel.

Marriage
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178
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40:31
Solomon and the Shulammite – His Unheeded Counsel, Transfer of Affection, and Lust
Rachel and Jacob: Her Desires and Unmet Expectations and His Discernment and Honesty - Part 2

Rachel and Jacob: Her Desires and Unmet Expectations and His Discernment and Honesty - Part 2

In Part 2 Emerson shares how Jacob’s defensive reaction to Rachel’s demand for children reveals the destructive impact of unmet expectations and emotional outbursts in a marriage.

Marriage
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21:55
Rachel and Jacob: Her Desires and Unmet Expectations and His Discernment and Honesty - Part 2
Rachel and Jacob: Her Desires and Unmet Expectations and His Discernment and Honesty - Part 1

Rachel and Jacob: Her Desires and Unmet Expectations and His Discernment and Honesty - Part 1

Explore the timeless story of Rachel and Jacob, a narrative rich with emotional struggles, unmet expectations, and communication missteps in this 2 part podcast.

Marriage
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175
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28:27
Rachel and Jacob: Her Desires and Unmet Expectations and His Discernment and Honesty - Part 1
Therapy First, Theology Second?

Therapy First, Theology Second?

In this episode, Emerson discusses the importance of prioritizing theology over therapy in understanding marriage and relationships. He shares his journey of studying male and female differences, emphasizing the need for a biblical foundation in counseling.

Marriage
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Episode
174
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43:50
Therapy First, Theology Second?
Solomon and the Shulammite – His Unheeded Counsel, Transfer of Affection, and Lust

Solomon and the Shulammite – His Unheeded Counsel, Transfer of Affection, and Lust

Emerson discusses the life of Solomon, exploring the themes of temptation, wisdom, and the importance of faithfulness in marriage. He highlights how even the wisest individuals can fall prey to their desires and the consequences of unheeded counsel.

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Episode
178
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40:31
Marriage
Solomon and the Shulammite – His Unheeded Counsel, Transfer of Affection, and Lust
Rachel and Jacob: Her Desires and Unmet Expectations and His Discernment and Honesty - Part 2

Rachel and Jacob: Her Desires and Unmet Expectations and His Discernment and Honesty - Part 2

In Part 2 Emerson shares how Jacob’s defensive reaction to Rachel’s demand for children reveals the destructive impact of unmet expectations and emotional outbursts in a marriage.

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176
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21:55
Marriage
Rachel and Jacob: Her Desires and Unmet Expectations and His Discernment and Honesty - Part 2
Rachel and Jacob: Her Desires and Unmet Expectations and His Discernment and Honesty - Part 1

Rachel and Jacob: Her Desires and Unmet Expectations and His Discernment and Honesty - Part 1

Explore the timeless story of Rachel and Jacob, a narrative rich with emotional struggles, unmet expectations, and communication missteps in this 2 part podcast.

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Episode
175
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28:27
Marriage
Rachel and Jacob: Her Desires and Unmet Expectations and His Discernment and Honesty - Part 1
Therapy First, Theology Second?

Therapy First, Theology Second?

In this episode, Emerson discusses the importance of prioritizing theology over therapy in understanding marriage and relationships. He shares his journey of studying male and female differences, emphasizing the need for a biblical foundation in counseling.

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43:50
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Understanding Parenting Differences: Balancing Empathy and Discipline

Understanding Parenting Differences: Balancing Empathy and Discipline

In this episode, Jonathan and Emerson discuss the parenting differences between mothers and fathers, specifically the tension between empathy and discipline. They acknowledge that while there are clearly exceptions, traditionally mothers tend to lean towards empathy while fathers lean towards discipline.

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Understanding Parenting Differences: Balancing Empathy and Discipline
Embracing Diverse Parenting Styles: The Strengths of Mothers and Fathers - Part 2

Embracing Diverse Parenting Styles: The Strengths of Mothers and Fathers - Part 2

In Part 2 Emerson and Jonathan provide a checklist for effective parenting, including openly discussing parenting strengths, acknowledging and appreciating each other's strengths, and working together to find the best approach.

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Embracing Diverse Parenting Styles: The Strengths of Mothers and Fathers - Part 2
Embracing Diverse Parenting Styles: The Strengths of Mothers and Fathers - Part 1

Embracing Diverse Parenting Styles: The Strengths of Mothers and Fathers - Part 1

Emerson and Jonathan discuss the topic of embracing diverse parenting styles and the strengths of mothers and fathers. They highlight the distinct strengths that mothers and fathers bring to parenting, such as intuition and empathy for mothers and analytical problem-solving for fathers in many cases.

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Embracing Diverse Parenting Styles: The Strengths of Mothers and Fathers - Part 1
Parenting: Chronic Anger or Chronic Appeasement? Part II

Parenting: Chronic Anger or Chronic Appeasement? Part II

Emerson and Jonathan continue this important topic in part 2 this week, including adding a third component of apathy. What is the Issue? Children need to honor parents and show this in their respectful attitude and obedient actions. However, many parents do not always feel respected nor obeyed so they seek methods that will motivate the child to be respectful and obedient. How do we deal with this Issue? There are right ways of dealing with this and wrong ways.

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Parenting: Chronic Anger or Chronic Appeasement? Part II
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Moving the Needle: Conversations That Spark Incremental Shifts in Understanding

Moving the Needle: Conversations That Spark Incremental Shifts in Understanding

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Moving the Needle: Conversations That Spark Incremental Shifts in Understanding
Part 4 - Living Above the Bar: 12 Qualities the World Values and Expects to See in Believers

Part 4 - Living Above the Bar: 12 Qualities the World Values and Expects to See in Believers

Christian Life
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32:38
Part 4 - Living Above the Bar: 12 Qualities the World Values and Expects to See in Believers
Part 3 - Living Above the Bar: 12 Qualities the World Values and Expects to See in Believers

Part 3 - Living Above the Bar: 12 Qualities the World Values and Expects to See in Believers

Christian Life
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Part 3 - Living Above the Bar: 12 Qualities the World Values and Expects to See in Believers
Part 2 - Living Above the Bar: 12 Qualities the World Values and Expects to See in Believers

Part 2 - Living Above the Bar: 12 Qualities the World Values and Expects to See in Believers

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Part 2 - Living Above the Bar: 12 Qualities the World Values and Expects to See in Believers
Part 1 - Living Above the Bar: 12 Qualities the World Values and Expects to See in Believers

Part 1 - Living Above the Bar: 12 Qualities the World Values and Expects to See in Believers

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Part 1 - Living Above the Bar: 12 Qualities the World Values and Expects to See in Believers
Trigger Points- Understanding and Managing Daily Annoyances and Anger

Trigger Points- Understanding and Managing Daily Annoyances and Anger

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