Love and Respect Husband + Logo Mug
Are you a husband who just can’t reflect without your coffee but needs a new mug? This one is marked for you! Wives…this is a great respectful gift for your husband. They are finally here, mugs from Love and Respect! Whether you are engaging a Love and Respect product, like the 52 week devotional, and need your coffee to reflect; or you are a wife looking for a gift for your husband. Anniversaries, Valentine’s Day, weddings, or just because, this mug will look great both in the cupboard and in his hand.
Love & Respect Coffee Cup
The Husband Mug
Timeless Ceramic Mugs
Experience a hint of nostalgia with our traditional ceramic custom diner mugs, reminiscent of simpler times. These 11 oz. ceramic mugs boast a sturdy build, glossy exterior, slight top and bottom flare, and a thick curved grip for easy handling. They make a perfect addition to your mug collection, adding a touch of charm to your daily coffee or tea enjoyment. Let these timeless mugs transport you to cherished memories as you sip your favorite beverages in comfort and style.
Spark Conversations on Marriage, Family, and Faith!
Immerse yourself in captivating conversations about marriage, family, and faith as you sip from our engaging ceramic diner mugs. These mugs are not just ordinary drinkware; they serve as excellent conversation starters among neighbors and friends. Elevate your small group experience by adding these fun and interactive items to the mix. Let the mugs ignite engaging discussions and create lasting memories as you bond over shared experiences and heartfelt conversations.
Emerson and Sarah Eggerichs
Dr. Emerson Eggerichs is an internationally known public speaker on the topic of male-female relationships. Based on over three decades of pastoring, counseling and study of biblical and scientific research, Dr. Eggerichs and his wife Sarah developed the Love and Respect Conference which they present to live audiences around the country.
About Love & RespectProduct Quotes
We have to step back as Christ followers and ask, “Do I have false expectations that my relationship should be romantic 99% of the time?”
In the ultimate sense, your marriage has nothing to do with your spouse. It has everything to do with your relationship to Jesus Christ.
If a husband chooses to be a peacemaker--taking the needs and concerns of his wife totally into account during any kind of argument or conflict--his wife will be motivated in turn to respond to his authority during stalemates.
It is crucial for a husband and wife to see that neither one is wrong, but both of them are very different--in body function, outlook and perspective.
You must “ask God from the wealth of his glory to give you power through his Spirit to be strong in your inner selves.”
Optimism or pessimism? It is always a choice, no matter what your natural temperament.
When you’re truly Christ-centered, instead of child-centered, you will be a more effective parent in the long run.
Most marriages will succeed when obeying the command to Love and Respect.
Getting married reveals, usually sooner than later, an incontestable fact: your spouse cannot possibly meet all your needs and desires
When one of you makes a mistake, control any anger you may feel and trust God completely, no matter what happens.
If we subscribe to the belief that because we are equal we are the same, then we’re going to expect our spouse to respond the way we do.
God is not trying to trick you or mess with you. Trust that He wants to reveal Himself to you just as much as He wants to reveal Himself to the world.
In the ultimate sense you marriage has nothing to do with your spouse. It has everything to do with your relationship with Jesus Christ.
We all need love and respect equally. But, during conflict our felt needs are as different as pink is from blue.
We might say that every negative action in the family has an equal and opposite negative reaction.
He will feel appreciated when you recognize his problem-solving approach as his male brand of empathy.
A marriage relationship will be energized when couples learn how to motivate each other God’s way.
Be quick to listen and understand and you have a much better chance of being understood.
I have concluded that those of us in the church who believe we have the Truth are not using the whole truth. A crucial part of God’s Word has been completely ignored, or perhaps simply gone unnoticed, when it has been there right under our noses the whole time! Many Christian spouses know Ephesians 5:33 and can at least paraphrase it. The Apostle Paul tells husbands to love their wives as much as they love themselves, and wives are to respect their husbands. But is anyone really listening? Perhaps the first step to better communication between husband and wife is to hear what God’s Word clearly says. --Emerson
How we react to a situation reveals more about us than about the other person.
When the wife flatly says her husband will have to earn her respect before she gives him any, she leaves the husband in a lose-lose situation. Now he is responsible for both love and respect in the relationship. He must unconditionally love his wife and earn her respect.
Positive changes flood a relationship immediately when both husband and wife cancel the blame game!
When a husband feels disrespected, he has a natural tendency to react in ways that feel unloving to his wife. (Perhaps the command to love was given to him precisely for this reason!) When a wife feels unloved, she has a natural tendency to react in ways that feel disrespectful to her husband. (Perhaps the command to respect was given to her precisely for this reason!)
No matter how difficult your spouse may be at the moment, your spouse does not have control over your reaction; you do. You may be experiencing disappointment, frustration or anger, but you always have a choice. A wife can choose to be disrespectful or respectful. A husband can choose to be unloving or loving.
Both Judas and Peter denied Jesus Christ, but there is a huge difference between a Judas and a Peter.
To build a lasting legacy, use proven wisdom that you glean from the Lord.
When you look to God and His Word as your ultimate source of significance and security, you don’t demand that your spouse take that role in your life. And as you draw strength from the Lord individually, He draws you closer together as a couple.
Research and experience prove that men and women see and hear differently. Recognizing these differences and adjusting to them is absolutely necessary for reaching mutual understanding and better communication.
Feeling unloved, a wife gets defensive and acts offensively without respect. Feeling disrespected, a husband gets defensive and acts offensively without love.
When evil comes at you, you’re the one who makes the choice of whether or not it is going to go into you.
Marriage is a test of how you unconditionally love and respect your spouse as you obey, honor, and please the Lord.
Unconditional respect means we confront their wrongdoings respectfully. We do not become uncivil because they are. Who they fail to be does not determine who we will be.
Never give up. If you want to have a strong marriage, you need to accept temporary setbacks as part of the game.
Always see your mate as an ally. Feedback is of little use if you see your spouse as an enemy. Giving and receiving constructive feedback is based on feelings of goodwill in both partners. Both of you need to remember that, even if you don’t always agree and even if you become irritated or angry, you are friends, and neither of you means to hurt the other.
The woman absolutely needs love, and the man absolutely needs respect. It’s as simple- and as difficult- as that.
As strong and powerful as marriage bonds can become, our deepest dependency must be on the Lord, not another human being.
It’s crucial to communicate with the right tone of voice and the right expression on your face.
I often stress that one of the greatest rewards any persevering spouse can have is being a good example and influence on the children in the family.
Your spouse can have a need that you don’t have and that’s okay.
There is a plan to parent God’s way, even when our children may seek to go their own way at time. The secret is to follow this plan regardless. When you do, I believe you succeed in His eyes.
Will we decide how we see God based on our circumstances, or will we see our circumstances in light of how we view God?
The Crazy Cycle is, indeed “the evil of folly and the foolishness of madness” (Ecclesiastes 7:25)
Stay the course regardless of the child’s respect and obedience. This is the Family Rewarded Cycle: a parents love unto Christ regardless of the child.
We can communicate the truth in the best of manners, but the person may be so insecure he or she can only react and attack like a wounded bear.
The Crazy Cycle is, indeed, “the evil of folly and the foolishness of madness” (Ecclesiastes 7:25).
Unconditional respect, like unconditional love, is all about how one sounds (tone of voice and word choice) and appears (facial expressions and physical actions).
It’s true that women have intuition and that men should listen to them. It’s also true that women have blind spots and need the insight of their husbands.
We must bring our identity in Christ to our parenting—we must not derive our identity from our children.
A husband may deserve contempt, but that doesn’t win him any more than harshness and anger wins the heart of a woman.
Words of wisdom for all husbands and wives are these: We easily see what is done to us before we see what we are doing to our mate.
It is so easy to draw wrong conclusions about a spouse’s character and motives due to an occasional flare-up or silly comment.
Before hitting send, ask yourself, "Have I listened carefully and understand the exact issue on the table?"
We send each other messages in “code” based on gender, even though we don’t intend to. What I say is not what you hear, and what you think you heard is not what I meant at all.
As a husband, if you can grasp that you don’t always have to solve your wife’s problems, you will take a giant step toward showing her empathy and understanding.
A woman needs love like she needs air to breathe. A man needs respect like he needs air to breathe.
Ladies, be careful. “A nagging wife goes on and on like the drip, drip, drip of the rain” (Proverbs 19:13).
If you want your husband to express appreciation for your attempts to be respectful, you must speak thankfully when he tries to be loving.
Being friendly to her man is one of the most effective things a woman can do to strengthen her marriage.
Don’t pressure yourself with perfection. We are going to fail. A righteous man falls 7 times but gets back up.
[Husbands] as the church places her burdens on Christ, so a woman needs to place her burdens on her husband. When she shares with you, don’t assume she is asking you to solve the problem. Ask your wife, “Do you want a solution or a listening ear?”
A wife has one driving need--to feel loved. When that need is met she is happy. A husband has one driving need--to feel respected. When that need is met he is happy. When either of these needs isn’t met, things get crazy. Love and Respect reveals why spouses react negatively to each other, and how they can deal with such conflict quickly, easily and biblically.
If a husband loves his wife as he should, she will feel honored and respected. If a wife respects her husband as she should, he will feel loved and appreciated. It’s a win-win.
Your position in Christ is what counts, not your less-than-perfect performance.
God designed the woman to love. He’s not going to command her to agape her husband when He created her to do that in the first place. God is not into redundancy.
To not forgive is to shoot yourself in the foot and put extra gas in the Crazy Cycle.
Christian maturity involves a lot of things, but surely it includes knowing how to process your anger.
The Lord made women (Pink) and men (Blue) with differences, and He expects us to recognize and deal with those differences in a loving and respectful way.
Thank God for joining you together and for allowing you to trust Him to help you, whatever the issue. God is there for you and expects you to look to Him to keep you together as a team, so ask Him for His help in the smallest of concerns. “So they are no longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.” (Matthew 19:6)
Share what God is saying to your heart, not what you think He needs to say to your mate.
So I encourage every husband and wife to commit to the Jesus Way of Talking. Instead of allowing the stress of the situation to control you, you can say to yourself, “Because I love the Lord and I know that He rewards every good word, I am going to be truthful even if my spouse is not. I will also be uplifting, forgiving, thankful and scriptural in my speech because my ultimate goal is to please the Lord. Whatever my spouse’s weaknesses or bad habits might be, I will not let them cause me to sin with my lips.”
When parents genuinely trust and follow the Lord and His ways, their faith spills over onto the children.
No matter what your struggle- criticism, constant conflict, sex, money, parenting, harsh words- learning to communicate the Love and Respect way can help you make crucial changes and build the kind of relationship that God blesses.
Troubles over sex and money do not cause a marriage to go under. The lack of love and respect during conflict cause the marriage to go under.
[Women], as you enter quiet dignity, not preaching at your husband or scolding him as though you were his mother, something happens in his soul as a male.
Do you believe that there is a God who really loves you and wants to help you?
Wives, to energize your husband do an activity with him, shoulder-to-shoulder, without talking.
I had often asked God to compensate for my mistakes, but in return had I thought He would give me perfect children?
As a wife, if you can start to understand how important your husband’s work is to him, you will take a giant step toward communicating respect and honor, two things that he values even more than your love.
The moment we cry to Him for help, He is already pleased. He gives us strength to love our children.
Do not live by the standards of Hollywood; trust what God says in His Holy Word.
With a better understanding of God’s promises, you will be on your way to a renewed mind and a changed life.
God rewards your obedience to love and respect, even if your spouse does not respond!
A most significant point of this book is this: If what we think is true, kind, necessary, and clear, we need to have the courage to hit send. This isn’t about refraining from speaking; this is about speaking.
Mutual understanding, not communication, is the key to a healthy marriage relationship.