Love and Respect Coaster (6) Set
A set of six premium leather coasters, each stamped with the Love & Respect logo. A perfect gift or an item to use in your Love and Respect small group. Or consider purchasing with our Love & Respect mug set. Made by Saddleback Leather Co.
Love and Respect Coasters
Set of 6
Made by Saddleback Leather Co.
Over-Engineering: This leather product is over-engineered with no breakable parts like zippers, snaps, buttons, etc. It's built with the largest pieces of leather possible so there are fewer seams, sewn at only 5 stitches per inch so there's more leather between the needle holes and fewer holes to start a tear.
What is it Made Of?
The strongest to be found (full-grain boot leather, but thicker), and the pigskin lining is stronger than the cow leather. The thread is unbelievably strong industrial marine grade UV resistant polyester thread.
Emerson and Sarah Eggerichs
Dr. Emerson Eggerichs is an internationally known public speaker on the topic of male-female relationships. Based on over three decades of pastoring, counseling and study of biblical and scientific research, Dr. Eggerichs and his wife Sarah developed the Love and Respect Conference which they present to live audiences around the country.
About Love & RespectProduct Quotes
As a husband, if you can grasp that you don’t always have to solve your wife’s problems, you will take a giant step toward showing her empathy and understanding.
Often both spouses have goodwill but are not deciphering each other’s code. She criticizes out of love, but he “hears” only disrespect. He distances himself to prevent feelings from escalating, which is the honorable thing to do, but she “sees” only his failure to be loving!
When a husband chooses to do or say something loving, and that includes saying, ‘I’m sorry for coming across in an unloving way,’ he energizes his wife. When a wife decides to express herself respectfully, and that includes apologizing for her disrespectful attitude, she energizes her husband.
We send each other messages in “code” based on gender, even though we don’t intend to. What I say is not what you hear, and what you think you heard is not what I meant at all.
Christian maturity involves a lot of things, but surely it includes knowing how to process your anger.
As strong and powerful as marriage bonds can become, our deepest dependency must be on the Lord, not another human being.
When we feel crippling discouragement by the sinful choices and outcomes of our kids, we must not let this permanently deter us from parenting God’s way.
You must “ask God from the wealth of his glory to give you power through his Spirit to be strong in your inner selves.”
It’s crucial to communicate with the right tone of voice and the right expression on your face.
Your marriage is really a tool and a test to deepen and demonstrate your love and reverence for your Lord.
God’s commands are there to help us, not to hinder us or hold us back as male and female.
We all need love and respect equally. But, during conflict our felt needs are as different as pink is from blue.
A husband may deserve contempt, but that doesn’t win him any more than harshness and anger wins the heart of a woman.
Money squabbles don’t undermine love and respect; they simply reveal unloving and disrespectful attitudes, which are the real reason why a marriage can start to wobble on the Crazy Cycle.
The Lord made women (Pink) and men (Blue) with differences, and He expects us to recognize and deal with those differences in a loving and respectful way.
So I encourage every husband and wife to commit to the Jesus Way of Talking. Instead of allowing the stress of the situation to control you, you can say to yourself, “Because I love the Lord and I know that He rewards every good word, I am going to be truthful even if my spouse is not. I will also be uplifting, forgiving, thankful and scriptural in my speech because my ultimate goal is to please the Lord. Whatever my spouse’s weaknesses or bad habits might be, I will not let them cause me to sin with my lips.”
“Living happily ever after” means knowing how to deal with the imperfect parts of life.
When a wife insists that her husband earn her respect, she puts him in a lose-lose situation.
Words of Love and Respect must include thankfulness spoken to or about your spouse; don’t fixate on weaknesses and faults.
Your wife feels you are open with her when you discuss financial concerns, possible job changes or ideas for your future.
Ladies, be careful. “A nagging wife goes on and on like the drip, drip, drip of the rain” (Proverbs 19:13).
Mutual understanding, not communication, is the key to a healthy marriage relationship.
A parent needs to feel respected, especially during conflicts...A child need to feel loved, especially during disputes.
Just because you may feel unloved or disrespected does not mean your spouse is sending that message.
To stay the course in speaking words of Love and Respect, keep your heart in Scripture, trusting in and talking about His promises to help you.
We blame people for the bad things we do, but take credit for the good things we do.
His love motivates her respect. Her respect motivates his love.
A wife has one driving need: to feel loved. When that need is met, she is happy. A husband has one driving need: to feel respected. When that need is met, he is happy. When either of these needs isn’t met, things get crazy with conflict.
Stay the course regardless of the child’s respect and obedience. This is the Family Rewarded Cycle: a parents love unto Christ regardless of the child.
Will we decide how we see God based on our circumstances, or will we see our circumstances in light of how we view God?
Marriage is a tool and a test to deepen and demonstrate your love and your reverence for Jesus Christ.
Your spouse deserves the truth from you. Do your best to tell it with love and respect.
The moment we cry to Him for help, He is already pleased. He gives us strength to love our children.
No matter how difficult your spouse may be at the moment, your spouse does not have control over your reaction; you do. You may be experiencing disappointment, frustration or anger, but you always have a choice. A wife can choose to be disrespectful or respectful. A husband can choose to be unloving or loving.
We can communicate the truth in the best of manners, but the person may be so insecure he or she can only react and attack like a wounded bear.
I had often asked God to compensate for my mistakes, but in return had I thought He would give me perfect children?
We might say that every negative action in the family has an equal and opposite negative reaction.
We fool ourselves into thinking the other person causes us to be the way we are. They really don’t! But if we lock into that idea, we become helpless, hopeless victims.
No matter how difficult your spouse may be at the moment, your spouse does not have control over your reaction; you do. You may be experiencing disappointment, frustration, or anger, but you always have a choice.
It’s hard to realize that we would never act around our business associates the way we act around our spouse.
With a better understanding of God’s promises, you will be on your way to a renewed mind and a changed life.
I have concluded that those of us in the church who believe we have the Truth are not using the whole truth. A crucial part of God’s Word has been completely ignored, or perhaps simply gone unnoticed, when it has been there right under our noses the whole time! Many Christian spouses know Ephesians 5:33 and can at least paraphrase it. The Apostle Paul tells husbands to love their wives as much as they love themselves, and wives are to respect their husbands. But is anyone really listening? Perhaps the first step to better communication between husband and wife is to hear what God’s Word clearly says. --Emerson
The parent-child relationship is as easy, and as difficult, as love and respect.
We all need to wrestle with the spiritual truth that God is good. If you don’t believe God is good, you won’t trust His word. If you don’t trust His word, you will find excuses to ignore His commands.
Unconditional love or respect is never wasted. Hang onto this promise: “Let us not lose heart in doing good, for in due time we will reap if we do not grow weary” (Galatians 6:9).
Thank the Lord that in the very beginning He created them male and female – Blue and Pink. Ask Him for patience and ever-growing understanding of how men and women see and hear differently. “He created them male and female, and He blessed them.” (Genesis 5:2)
When others do not respond to our communication, we need to look first at our communication style. Is the other person incapable of hearing what we have to say? Or are we abrupt, brusque, and curt?
Don’t conclude that your spouse is wrong when he/she is seeking to do the right and righteous thing.
If husbands and wives are to understand the Love and Respect Connection, they must realize that they communicate in code. And the problem is, they don’t know how to decipher the messages they send to one another.
Always remember that Pink and Blue have different wiring, different preferences. Assume your spouse has goodwill toward you, no matter what. Both of you can be right, while being different.
Never give up. If you want to have a strong marriage, you need to accept temporary setbacks as part of the game.
[Husbands] do you realize the power of just holding your wife’s hand?
The woman absolutely needs love, and the man absolutely needs respect. It’s as simple- and as difficult- as that.
Each of you must focus on what God is calling you to do toward your spouse. Do not focus on what you think God is calling your spouse to do toward you.
It is so easy to draw wrong conclusions about a spouse’s character and motives due to an occasional flare-up or silly comment.
Words of wisdom for all husbands and wives are these: We easily see what is done to us before we see what we are doing to our mate.
When you love or respect unconditionally regardless of the outcome, you are following God and His will for you.
Be quick to listen and understand and you have a much better chance of being understood.
When a husband feels disrespected, it is especially hard to love his wife. When a wife feels unloved, it is especially hard to respect her husband.
Do not live by the standards of Hollywood; trust what God says in His Holy Word.
God is not pink. God is not blue. God is purple. When two become one, they have the potential of displaying God’s attributes and character.
When you come home after you have been apart, the first few moments of reconnecting will set the tone for the rest of the evening.
Husbands primarily want to hear ‘respect” talk during conflict. Wives primarily want to hear “love” talk during conflict.
His love blesses regardless of her respect; her respect blesses regardless of his love.
When you look to God and His Word as your ultimate source of significance and security, you don’t demand that your spouse take that role in your life. And as you draw strength from the Lord individually, He draws you closer together as a couple.
A major step toward a happy marriage is accepting differences and working them out with love and respect.
You’re the only person in the world who can meet your spouse’s deepest need for love and respect. After all, you alone are married to your spouse.
Through Jesus and Peter, God set forth His standard for living in the unconditional dimension: choose to be loving even when the other person is not; do what is right regardless of the treatment you receive. I believe this standard applies directly to marriage. A husband who speaks lovingly to his disrespectful wife will be rewarded; and a wife who speaks respectfully to her unloving, not-worthy-of-respect husband will be rewarded. Whether you are husband or wife, the reward is what can keep you going in the midst of the craziness: knowing that God commends you, knowing that you have found his favor for your words and actions.
Your husband knows you appreciate his desire to protect and provide when you praise his commitment to provide for you. You empathize when he reveals his male mindset about position, status, or rank at work.
Your marriage is a tool and a test to deepen and demonstrate your love and reverence for Jesus Christ. God is using your spouse to bring you an eternal reward.
The difference between successful couples and unsuccessful couples is that successful ones keep getting up and dealing with the issues.
Mutual submission is the only way to live fairly together with mutual authority.
Although the Crazy Cycle is not what God intends for any marriage, all couples get on it at times from one degree to another.
Husbands, to energize your wife give her face-to-face time, allowing her to talk and share her feelings.
He will feel appreciated when you recognize his problem-solving approach as his male brand of empathy.
Husbands, even Jesus Himself was asked by a woman, “Do you not care?” (Luke 10:40) When your wife accuses you of not caring, decode her deeper meaning.
A marriage relationship will be energized when couples learn how to motivate each other God’s way.
As a wife, if you can start to understand how important your husband’s work is to him, you will take a giant step toward communicating respect and honor, two things that he values even more than your love.
Responding to offensive words or actions with your own offensive words and actions is damaging and unproductive.
Just because you’re offended doesn’t mean the other person is offensive.
How we react to a situation reveals more about us than about the other person.