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LIBRO DE EJERCICIOS PARA EL DVD EN ESPAÑOL Este es un libro de ejercicios que viene adjunto con el set de “Amor y Respeto” donde se presentan todas las Escrituras que el Dr. Eggerichs utiliza, así como actividades interactivas para los participantes. Por favor ordene uno por persona.






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Amor y Respeto
Cuarderno De Trabajo: Videoconferencia
LIBRO DE EJERCICIOS PARA EL DVD EN ESPAÑOL
Este es un libro de ejercicios que viene adjunto con el set de “Amor y Respeto” donde se presentan todas las Escrituras que el Dr. Eggerichs utiliza, así como actividades interactivas para los participantes. Por favor ordene uno por persona.
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Spanish DVD Workbook
This is the companion workbook to the Spanish Love and Respect DVDs, providing all the Scriptures Dr. Eggerichs uses, as well as fill-in-the-blanks for interactive participation. Please order one per person.
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Emerson and Sarah Eggerichs
Dr. Emerson Eggerichs is an internationally known public speaker on the topic of male-female relationships. Based on over three decades of pastoring, counseling and study of biblical and scientific research, Dr. Eggerichs and his wife Sarah developed the Love and Respect Conference which they present to live audiences around the country.
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When a husband feels disrespected, it is especially hard to love his wife. When a wife feels unloved, it is especially hard to respect her husband.
When a wife feels unloved, it can be such a shock to her heart that she is oblivious to her disrespectful reactions toward her husband, though any man watching could see it plainly.
[Husbands] the most powerful weapons you have are your ears. Just listen to your wife, and she is much more likely to feel understood.
The Crazy Cycle is, indeed “the evil of folly and the foolishness of madness” (Ecclesiastes 7:25)
It is crucial for a husband and wife to see that neither one is wrong, but both of them are very different--in body function, outlook and perspective.
The more we are upset at something, the wiser it is to let twenty-four hours pass before responding.
He will feel appreciated when you disagree with him only in private and honor his authority in front of the kids.
God is not trying to trick you or mess with you. Trust that He wants to reveal Himself to you just as much as He wants to reveal Himself to the world.
Thank the Lord for all the trouble-free moments in which you and your spouse enjoy Him, each other, your family, your ministry and life as a whole. Ask Him for the strength to accept your measure of trouble, and the wisdom to deal with the annoyances and irritations by loving and respecting each other with new commitment. (You may also want to pray about troubles at work, at church, with the children…) “But those who marry will have trouble in this life” (1 Corinthians 7:28)
Marriage is a test of how you unconditionally love and respect your spouse as you obey, honor, and please the Lord.
This is the Rewarded Cycle: His love blesses regardless of her respect and her respect blesses regardless of his love.
When you’re truly Christ-centered, instead of child-centered, you will be a more effective parent in the long run.
Don’t pressure yourself with perfection. We are going to fail. A righteous man falls 7 times but gets back up.
Optimism or pessimism? It is always a choice, no matter what your natural temperament.
When we speak before we think, we widen the chances the other person(s) will be notably hurt, frustrated, confused, angry, fearful, or offended by something we’ve communicated.
[Husbands] do you realize the power of just holding your wife’s hand?
Our research shows that couples who pray together are more apt to reap all kinds of benefits, including better and more frequent communication, going on “dates” more frequently and having sex more frequently.
Research and experience prove that men and women see and hear differently. Recognizing these differences and adjusting to them is absolutely necessary for reaching mutual understanding and better communication.
Just because you may feel unloved or disrespected does not mean your spouse is sending that message.
Each of you must focus on what God is calling you to do toward your spouse. Do not focus on what you think God is calling your spouse to do toward you.
Wives, to energize your husband do an activity with him, shoulder-to-shoulder, without talking.
Through Jesus and Peter, God set forth His standard for living in the unconditional dimension: choose to be loving even when the other person is not; do what is right regardless of the treatment you receive. I believe this standard applies directly to marriage. A husband who speaks lovingly to his disrespectful wife will be rewarded; and a wife who speaks respectfully to her unloving, not-worthy-of-respect husband will be rewarded. Whether you are husband or wife, the reward is what can keep you going in the midst of the craziness: knowing that God commends you, knowing that you have found his favor for your words and actions.
When others do not respond to our communication, we need to look first at our communication style. Is the other person incapable of hearing what we have to say? Or are we abrupt, brusque, and curt?
We get on the Crazy Cycle because without love a wife reacts without respect, and without respect a husband reacts without love.
Avoid like the plague trying to punish each other as a means of “motivation.” Christ-followers instinctively know that this destroys any opportunity to act out of reverence for Christ. In all marital issues, love and reverence for Christ must be our primary motivation.
God’s commands are not burdensome, but are given to us to spare us from more pain. Why would God command you to do something that doesn’t work?
Both Judas and Peter denied Jesus Christ, but there is a huge difference between a Judas and a Peter.
The Crazy Cycle is, indeed, “the evil of folly and the foolishness of madness” (Ecclesiastes 7:25).
We blame people for the bad things we do, but take credit for the good things we do.
When a husband feels disrespected, he has a natural tendency to react in ways that feel unloving to his wife. (Perhaps the command to love was given to him precisely for this reason!) When a wife feels unloved, she has a natural tendency to react in ways that feel disrespectful to her husband. (Perhaps the command to respect was given to her precisely for this reason!)
Since it is easy to focus on the negative, focus on your mate’s good qualities and express thanks with positive words of Love or Respect.
Husbands, to energize your wife give her face-to-face time, allowing her to talk and share her feelings.
Your husband knows you appreciate his desire to protect and provide when you praise his commitment to provide for you. You empathize when he reveals his male mindset about position, status, or rank at work.
Self-interest should never come ahead of your spouse’s interests.
It is so easy to draw wrong conclusions about a spouse’s character and motives due to an occasional flare-up or silly comment.
The parent-child relationship is as easy, and as difficult, as love and respect.
When one of you makes a mistake, control any anger you may feel and trust God completely, no matter what happens.
If you want your husband to express appreciation for your attempts to be respectful, you must speak thankfully when he tries to be loving.
Unconditional respect is as powerful to him as unconditional love is to her.
“Living happily ever after” means knowing how to deal with the imperfect parts of life.
A most significant point of this book is this: If what we think is true, kind, necessary, and clear, we need to have the courage to hit send. This isn’t about refraining from speaking; this is about speaking.
A marriage relationship will be energized when couples learn how to motivate each other God’s way.
Words of love from a husband are like good medicine that brings life to the marriage.
Do you understand that God feels compassion for you, no matter what you have done or what your circumstances may be?
Share what God is saying to your heart, not what you think He needs to say to your mate.
Getting married reveals, usually sooner than later, an incontestable fact: your spouse cannot possibly meet all your needs and desires
Your position in Christ is what counts, not your less-than-perfect performance.
If a husband chooses to be a peacemaker--taking the needs and concerns of his wife totally into account during any kind of argument or conflict--his wife will be motivated in turn to respond to his authority during stalemates.
The woman absolutely needs love, and the man absolutely needs respect. It’s as simple- and as difficult- as that.
Men are solution oriented, they love to solve problems. They want to be helpful.
Being a person who communicates what is true frequently demands tact, and at times it can feel like sidestepping land mines. It takes work to be both truthful and tactful.
We have different vulnerabilities. We can pass judgment on one another all day long or we can say God made us different and that’s ok.
When the wife flatly says her husband will have to earn her respect before she gives him any, she leaves the husband in a lose-lose situation. Now he is responsible for both love and respect in the relationship. He must unconditionally love his wife and earn her respect.
A parent needs to feel respected, especially during conflicts...A child need to feel loved, especially during disputes.
Just because you’re offended doesn’t mean the other person is offensive.
No matter how difficult your spouse may be at the moment, your spouse does not have control over your reaction; you do. You may be experiencing disappointment, frustration, or anger, but you always have a choice.
Your wife feels you are open with her when you discuss financial concerns, possible job changes or ideas for your future.
We all need to wrestle with the spiritual truth that God is good. If you don’t believe God is good, you won’t trust His word. If you don’t trust His word, you will find excuses to ignore His commands.
Marital researchers agree that a huge percentage of communication problems between husband and wife are due not to what is said but to how it is said – the attitude and tone of voice.
We can communicate the truth in the best of manners, but the person may be so insecure he or she can only react and attack like a wounded bear.
Don’t label each other as bad because you differ on how you solve your troubles.
Always remember that Pink and Blue have different wiring, different preferences. Assume your spouse has goodwill toward you, no matter what. Both of you can be right, while being different.
Parenting is a faith venture. As we parent “unto Christ” we reap God’s reward, “knowing that whatever good anyone does, he will receive the same from the Lord” (Eph. 6:8 NKJV)
Words of Love or Respect must uplift your spouse, edifying- never manipulating him or her.
Above all trust God when the “whys” of life threaten to overwhelm you.
Can you begin to trust that God feels love for you even when you don’t feel that love?
Responding to offensive words or actions with your own offensive words and actions is damaging and unproductive.
Accidental sparks (unwise remarks) ignite and fuel a fire, and vroom goes the Crazy Cycle.
Feeling unloved, a wife gets defensive and acts offensively without respect. Feeling disrespected, a husband gets defensive and acts offensively without love.
To build a lasting legacy, use proven wisdom that you glean from the Lord.
Your spouse has a need that you don’t have. Are you going to say there is something seriously wrong with them or will you say “Viva la Difference”?
Do you believe that there is a God who really loves you and wants to help you?
Your husband knows you value his friendship when you tell him you like him and you show it (he knows you love him, but he often wonders if you really like him).
Thank the Lord that in the very beginning He created them male and female – Blue and Pink. Ask Him for patience and ever-growing understanding of how men and women see and hear differently. “He created them male and female, and He blessed them.” (Genesis 5:2)
Research shows that 70% of the couples who were extremely unhappy in their marriage, but hung in there and worked through the tough time, identified themselves as being very happy five years later.
As a husband, if you can grasp that you don’t always have to solve your wife’s problems, you will take a giant step toward showing her empathy and understanding.
You’re the only person in the world who can meet your spouse’s deepest need for love and respect. After all, you alone are married to your spouse.
Before hitting send, ask yourself, "Have I listened carefully and understand the exact issue on the table?"
Words of wisdom for all husbands and wives are these: We easily see what is done to us before we see what we are doing to our mate.
When parents genuinely trust and follow the Lord and His ways, their faith spills over onto the children.
Clearly, in the marriage, in the family and in the household, when you speak words of blessing, you are speaking to the Lord, and for this you will be rewarded.
A major step toward a happy marriage is accepting differences and working them out with love and respect.
Never give up. If you want to have a strong marriage, you need to accept temporary setbacks as part of the game.
Your spouse can have a need that you don’t have and that’s okay.
