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Marriage Unto Christ: Inspiring Stories of Visualizing Jesus Beyond Your Spouse's Shoulder

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Emerson and Jonathan discuss the concept of marriage unto Christ, where husbands and wives love and respect each other regardless of their spouse's response. This concept is based on the Rewarded Cycle, which emphasizes doing everything unto Jesus. The testimonies shared by husbands and wives highlight the impact of this mindset on their marriages. Despite facing difficulties and challenges, many couples maintain a strong sense of doing what they do unto Jesus Christ.

Emerson Eggerichs, Ph.D.

Author, Speaker, Pastor

Jonathan Eggerichs, Psy.D.

Psychologist

Questions to Consider

How can you start applying the principle of doing your marriage "unto Christ" in your daily interactions with your spouse?
What are some small actions you can take to show love and respect to your spouse even when it's not reciprocated?
In what ways can visualizing Christ beyond the shoulder of your spouse change your perspective during moments of conflict?
How can extending grace and forgiveness to your spouse reflect Christ's forgiveness and grace towards you?

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