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Ephesians 5:21
Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ (NIV).
Prayer: Thank the Lord that he has given the two of you equal say in matters like sex and affection. Thank him, too, that you have goodwill toward each other, even though you may have different needs and preferences. Ask him for wisdom in finding the right balance through mutual submission.
Action: When tension arises over desires for sex and affection, refuse to judge each other as wrong. Talk it out as friends, seeking to understand each other’s needs. If sex continues to be a serious issue, consider seeing a skilled Christian counselor. See appendix D (page 289) for counseling resources. (For discussion questions, see page 247 in Appendix A.)
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