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Therapy First, Theology Second?

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In this episode, Emerson discusses the importance of prioritizing theology over therapy in understanding marriage and relationships. He is not against therapy as his own son, Jonathan, is a clinical psychologist. However, he shares his journey of studying male and female differences, emphasizing the need for a biblical foundation in counseling. Emerson critiques the therapeutic community's bias against men and the shift from theological principles to psychological insights. He argues for a balance between emotional health and spiritual growth, highlighting the significance of obedience to God's commands in marriage.

Emerson Eggerichs, Ph.D.

Author, Speaker, Pastor

Questions to Consider

How do you think integrating both psychological insights and biblical principles can provide a balanced approach to understanding male and female differences in marriage?
In what ways might focusing solely on emotional health impact the spiritual growth and maturity of individuals within a marriage?
How can couples ensure they prioritize God's commands in their relationship over their personal emotional needs and desires?
What role do you believe the church and therapeutic community should play in guiding couples towards a biblically-based understanding of love and respect in marriage?

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