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I Thought I'd Never Close Off My Spirit To My Spouse - Part 2
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In episode 2 Emerson continues to explore the painful reality of “hardness of heart” in marriage, a concept rooted in unmet needs, unintentional hurt, and self-protective behaviors that build emotional walls between spouses. Through the relatable story of John and Sarah, Emerson reveals how misunderstandings and defensiveness lead to emotional distance, but also shows how recognizing our own contributions can be the key to breaking free from the “crazy cycle.” This episode invites listeners to find new hope, empathy, and practical steps for healing and softening their hearts toward each other.
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Emerson Eggerichs, Ph.D.
Author, Speaker, Pastor
Questions to Consider
- What assumptions about your spouse’s actions or intentions could be feeding the “crazy cycle” in your relationship?
- How can understanding your spouse’s unique needs help you interpret their reactions in a more compassionate light?
- In what ways might self-protection be unintentionally driving emotional distance, and how could vulnerability bring you closer?
- How can you begin to break down the walls in your relationship, even if your spouse seems reluctant to open up?
