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I Thought I'd Never Close Off My Spirit To My Spouse - Part 1

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I Thought I'd Never Close Off My Spirit To My Spouse - Part 1

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In Part 1 of this four part series, Emerson examines the often unspoken struggles that can erode even the most cherished marriages. Addressing the profound pain and disappointment felt by many spouses, he unpacks the concept of “hardness of heart” as it pertains to marriage, exploring how unresolved conflicts and self-protective walls can replace the intimacy God designed for couples. This episode invites listeners to find hope and practical steps to soften hearts and restore connection, even in the face of longstanding hurt.

Emerson Eggerichs, Ph.D.

Author, Speaker, Pastor

Questions to Consider

What self-protective walls have you built in your relationships, and how might they impact connection?
How does the concept of love and respect resonate with your own experiences of feeling valued or disregarded in marriage?
In what ways could you shift your perspective or behavior to foster a more open-hearted relationship with your spouse?
How might reflecting on Ephesians 5:33 influence your approach to healing conflicts in your marriage?

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