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My Love is Behind My Disrespect

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This week Emerson and Jonathan discuss a recent inquiry that Emerson received from a wife saying, "My love is behind my disrespect." What she is essentially saying is, because the intent is good, the means are justified, especially since it seems to work with her husband. Emerson and Jonathan respond in this week’s episode.

Emerson Eggerichs, Ph.D.

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Jonathan Eggerichs, Psy.D.

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