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Webinar - Clarify What is Meant - Lessons from Children and Marriage

Emerson discusses the importance of clarifying what is meant in marriage. He shares stories of miscommunication and misunderstandings between spouses and emphasizes the idea that one can be logical but incorrect, which can be tough to see in oneself. He highlights the significance of seeking clarification and not jumping to conclusions based on misinterpretations while also emphasizing the importance of children in revealing profound truths about miscommunication and how their simple, literal thinking can teach us valuable lessons in marriage.

Emerson Eggerichs, Ph.D.

Author, Speaker, Pastor

Questions to Consider

How often do I presume my spouse's intentions without seeking clarification?
In what ways can I improve my communication to avoid misunderstandings and strife in my marriage?
How can I apply lessons from the simple and literal thinking of children to enhance my relationship?
What steps can I take to practice patience and seek understanding before reacting in conversations with my spouse?

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