Motivating Your Man God's Way: Discover One Word that Energizes Him to Love

Motivating Your Man God’s Way! Sound intriguing? Every wife we have met desires to motivate her man to be more loving. So what motivates a husband to love, and feel more love for his wife? Dr. Emerson and Sarah Eggerichs discovered the secret and share it with wives in this simple guide.

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Motivating Your Man God's Way

Discovering One Word That Energizes Your Husband To Love

Unveiling the Secrets to Motivating Your Man God's Way!

Intrigued? It's a desire shared by countless wives—to inspire their husbands to be more loving. But what truly motivates a husband to love deeply and feel a greater love for his wife? Dr. Emerson and Sarah Eggerichs have unraveled this secret and present it in this straightforward guide. Dr. Eggerichs reflects on their counseling experience, stating, "We have noticed a common trend: husbands often lack motivation in this area. They tend to be less proactive in seeking marriage counseling or attending seminars."

Transform Your Marriage: Inspire Love and Witness Remarkable Change!

Recognizing this fundamental challenge, the Eggerichs' have discovered a simple answer. By implementing the discussed principles into your marriage, you can experience remarkable positive changes, potentially surpassing even your wildest dreams. Prepare to embark on an incredible journey of inspiring love and witnessing transformative results in your relationship. With this guide, you'll have the tools to motivate your man in a way that aligns with God's plan. Get ready to see your marriage thrive as you put these principles into practice, creating a deeper and more fulfilling connection with your husband.

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Emerson and Sarah Eggerichs

Dr. Emerson Eggerichs is an internationally known public speaker on the topic of male-female relationships. Based on over three decades of pastoring, counseling and study of biblical and scientific research, Dr. Eggerichs and his wife Sarah developed the Love and Respect Conference which they present to live audiences around the country.

About Love & Respect
Portrait of Emerson and Sarah Eggerichs

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It’s true that women have intuition and that men should listen to them. It’s also true that women have blind spots and need the insight of their husbands.

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When you’re truly Christ-centered, instead of child-centered, you will be a more effective parent in the long run.

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To stay the course in speaking words of Love and Respect, keep your heart in Scripture, trusting in and talking about His promises to help you.

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Thank God for joining you together and for allowing you to trust Him to help you, whatever the issue. God is there for you and expects you to look to Him to keep you together as a team, so ask Him for His help in the smallest of concerns. “So they are no longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.” (Matthew 19:6)

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Stay the course regardless of the child’s respect and obedience. This is the Family Rewarded Cycle: a parents love unto Christ regardless of the child.

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When a husband feels disrespected, he has a natural tendency to react in ways that feel unloving to his wife. (Perhaps the command to love was given to him precisely for this reason!) When a wife feels unloved, she has a natural tendency to react in ways that feel disrespectful to her husband. (Perhaps the command to respect was given to her precisely for this reason!)

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You can be right in the argument, but wrong in your approach.

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Your husband knows you appreciate his desire to protect and provide when you praise his commitment to provide for you. You empathize when he reveals his male mindset about position, status, or rank at work.

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We might say that every negative action in the family has an equal and opposite negative reaction.

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Don’t label each other as bad because you differ on how you solve your troubles.

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Husbands, even Jesus Himself was asked by a woman, “Do you not care?” (Luke 10:40) When your wife accuses you of not caring, decode her deeper meaning.

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No one can really practice Love and Respect unless he or she does it as unto Jesus Christ.

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It is so easy to draw wrong conclusions about a spouse’s character and motives due to an occasional flare-up or silly comment.

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Your spouse has a need only you can fill.

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When a husband chooses to do or say something loving, and that includes saying, ‘I’m sorry for coming across in an unloving way,’ he energizes his wife. When a wife decides to express herself respectfully, and that includes apologizing for her disrespectful attitude, she energizes her husband.

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Truth will carry its own weight if delivered respectfully and lovingly.

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He will feel appreciated when you recognize his problem-solving approach as his male brand of empathy.

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Just because you’re offended doesn’t mean the other person is offensive.

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Trust God when the “why’s” of life threaten to overwhelm you.

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When you love or respect unconditionally regardless of the outcome, you are following God and His will for you.

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Optimism or pessimism? It is always a choice, no matter what your natural temperament.

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Good intentions do not always produce good words or outcomes.

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Do you seek to understand or only to be understood?

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When a wife insists that her husband earn her respect, she puts him in a lose-lose situation.

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Our trustworthiness rests on our truthfulness.

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A man has a natural, inborn desire to go out and “conquer” the challenges of his world – to work and achieve.

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In the ultimate sense you marriage has nothing to do with your spouse. It has everything to do with your relationship with Jesus Christ.

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Do you bow to the influence of Hollywood or God’s Holy Word?

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There is a discrepancy between who we want to be and see ourselves to be and how we actually sound in voice and writing. But with self-reflection and honesty, we can turn the corner and improve our communication. We need only evaluate what we are about to communicate.

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Fight like a loving man and a respectful woman. Fight fair.

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[Husbands] as the church places her burdens on Christ, so a woman needs to place her burdens on her husband. When she shares with you, don’t assume she is asking you to solve the problem. Ask your wife, “Do you want a solution or a listening ear?”

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“Respect is a man’s deepest value. I have had numerous men tell me, ‘I would rather live with a wife who respected me but did not love me than live with a wife who loved me but did not respect me.’ These men are not saying that they are indifferent to love. They know they need love, but they need to feel respected even more than they need to feel loved.“

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To build a lasting legacy, use proven wisdom that you glean from the Lord.

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You can experience hurt, but it is your choice to hate.

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You have two ears and one mouth; use them proportionately.

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When Jesus said “turn the other cheek,” He wasn’t saying to be passive wimps. He was teaching that physically people can control you but if you turn and give the other cheek, suddenly you’re in control and you’re making the choices.

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In the ultimate sense, your marriage has nothing to do with your spouse. It has everything to do with your relationship to Jesus Christ.

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When confronting your spouse, attack the behavior, not the person.

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Be a part of the solution, not part of the problem.

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Often the apparent issue isn’t the real issue; the real issue is always a matter of love or respect.

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You cannot use unholy means to achieve a worthy end.

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Husbands primarily want to hear ‘respect” talk during conflict. Wives primarily want to hear “love” talk during conflict.

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His love motivates her respect. Her respect motivates his love.

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Since it is easy to focus on the negative, focus on your mate’s good qualities and express thanks with positive words of Love or Respect.

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Just because you may feel unloved or disrespected does not mean your spouse is sending that message.

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Husbands, to energize your wife give her face-to-face time, allowing her to talk and share her feelings.

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Your spouse deserves the truth from you. Do your best to tell it with love and respect.

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If a husband is commanded to agape- love his wife, then she truly needs love.

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Most marriages will succeed when obeying the command to Love and Respect.

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Could you be facing a crisis in faith more than a crisis in your marriage?

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A strong woman of dignity puts on respect out of her love and reverence for Jesus Christ. She trusts that His word not only protects and empowers her, but also rewards her with incomprehensible eternal blessings.

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The difference between successful couples and unsuccessful couples is that successful ones keep getting up and dealing with the issues.

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If a husband loves his wife as he should, she will feel honored and respected. If a wife respects her husband as she should, he will feel loved and appreciated. It’s a win-win.

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The parent-child relationship is as easy, and as difficult, as love and respect.

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In your marriage be the first to “seek peace and pursue it” (1 Peter 3:11)

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Unconditional respect, like unconditional love, is all about how one sounds (tone of voice and word choice) and appears (facial expressions and physical actions).

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Though the end can be worthy (to be loved and respected), when each uses unholy means (unloving and disrespectful words and actions), it will not achieve those ends. We must treat others as we expect them to treat us. To deny this makes us arrogant or fools, or both.

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A parent needs to feel respected, especially during conflicts...A child need to feel loved, especially during disputes.

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When a wife feels unloved, it can be such a shock to her heart that she is oblivious to her disrespectful reactions toward her husband, though any man watching could see it plainly.

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Focus on the positive in the midst of the negative, and the Energizing Cycle will keep right on humming.

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When you look to God and His Word as your ultimate source of significance and security, you don’t demand that your spouse take that role in your life. And as you draw strength from the Lord individually, He draws you closer together as a couple.

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Suppressing negative feelings is not loving, respectful or very wise. Speak up tactfully.

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Can you begin to trust that God feels love for you even when you don’t feel that love?

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Your spouse has a need that you don’t have. Are you going to say there is something seriously wrong with them or will you say “Viva la Difference”?

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Clearly, in the marriage, in the family and in the household, when you speak words of blessing, you are speaking to the Lord, and for this you will be rewarded.

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Your wife will feel esteemed when you speak highly of her in front of others.

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Parenting is a faith venture. As we parent “unto Christ” we reap God’s reward, “knowing that whatever good anyone does, he will receive the same from the Lord” (Eph. 6:8 NKJV)

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I had often asked God to compensate for my mistakes, but in return had I thought He would give me perfect children?

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To get offended is easy, but to forgive is within your power as you walk in His steps.

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As strong and powerful as marriage bonds can become, our deepest dependency must be on the Lord, not another human being.

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The key to motivating another person is meeting their deepest need, especially during conflict.

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God designed the woman to love. He’s not going to command her to agape her husband when He created her to do that in the first place. God is not into redundancy.

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Positive changes flood a relationship immediately when both husband and wife cancel the blame game!

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Unconditional respect means we confront their wrongdoings respectfully. We do not become uncivil because they are. Who they fail to be does not determine who we will be.

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When a husband feels disrespected, it is especially hard to love his wife. When a wife feels unloved, it is especially hard to respect her husband.

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Always see your mate as an ally. Feedback is of little use if you see your spouse as an enemy. Giving and receiving constructive feedback is based on feelings of goodwill in both partners. Both of you need to remember that, even if you don’t always agree and even if you become irritated or angry, you are friends, and neither of you means to hurt the other.

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We blame people for the bad things we do, but take credit for the good things we do.

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This is the Rewarded Cycle: His love blesses regardless of her respect and her respect blesses regardless of his love.

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Mutual understanding, not communication, is the key to a healthy marriage relationship.

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The moment we cry to Him for help, He is already pleased. He gives us strength to love our children.

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I have concluded that those of us in the church who believe we have the Truth are not using the whole truth. A crucial part of God’s Word has been completely ignored, or perhaps simply gone unnoticed, when it has been there right under our noses the whole time! Many Christian spouses know Ephesians 5:33 and can at least paraphrase it. The Apostle Paul tells husbands to love their wives as much as they love themselves, and wives are to respect their husbands. But is anyone really listening? Perhaps the first step to better communication between husband and wife is to hear what God’s Word clearly says. --Emerson

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He will feel appreciated when you disagree with him only in private and honor his authority in front of the kids.

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We send each other messages in “code” based on gender, even though we don’t intend to. What I say is not what you hear, and what you think you heard is not what I meant at all.

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Here is the secret to marriage that every couple seeks and yet few find: Unconditional respect is as powerful for him as unconditional love is for her. It’s the secret that will help you achieve a brand new level of intimacy.

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We have discovered that as women motivate their man God’s way, men are energized to love them better. It doesn’t matter if your marriage is good or seems like there is no hope. We have seen God move in powerful ways even when things looked hopeless.

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We are either going to give in the darkness or we are going to give into the darkness.

The Illumination Project (Journal)

Being a person who communicates what is true frequently demands tact, and at times it can feel like sidestepping land mines. It takes work to be both truthful and tactful.

Before You Hit Send

Refuse to let evil turn you into a contemptuous and hateful person.

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Mistakes can’t be undone, but they can be forgiven.

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When we feel crippling discouragement by the sinful choices and outcomes of our kids, we must not let this permanently deter us from parenting God’s way.

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We fool ourselves into thinking the other person causes us to be the way we are. They really don’t! But if we lock into that idea, we become helpless, hopeless victims.

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A major step toward a happy marriage is accepting differences and working them out with love and respect.

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Respect for the husband is just as important as love for the wife.

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The heart of my communication means the other person cannot get my heart to be unkind, unloving, or disrespectful. Instead, I have made a decision about who I will be independent of the other person. I won’t blame my unkindness on someone else.

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You may believe that the careless, unloving or disrespectful words you speak are because your spouse is causing you to speak this way, but Jesus says that it is coming out of your heart.

Building Blocks

[Women], as you enter quiet dignity, not preaching at your husband or scolding him as though you were his mother, something happens in his soul as a male.

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When sorting out how to slow down the Crazy Cycle, it helps to remember that men are commanded to love because they don’t love naturally, and on the other side, women are commanded to respect because they don’t respect naturally.

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Accentuate the positive and eliminate the negative with lots of love and respect in between.

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Knowing my spouse will not be able to love or respect me perfectly, I commit to having a forgiving spirit so that I may never speak hatefully or contemptuously.

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It is crucial for a husband and wife to see that neither one is wrong, but both of them are very different--in body function, outlook and perspective.

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