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Our Marriage Hit Rock Bottom - A Wife’s Story

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Listen in this week as Emerson and Jonathan discuss a wife's story about her marriage hitting rock bottom and what she did about it. Here are a few of her words - We went to counseling, and that did not seem to help. My husband told me he loved me, but wasn’t attracted to me and didn’t feel “in love” with me...I decided to try one of your exercises. I told my husband why I respected him. I remember having to think about it all night.

Emerson Eggerichs, Ph.D.

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Jonathan Eggerichs, Psy.D.

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