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What Is Unconditional Positive Regard?

Unconditional regard towards another person's spirit - what does it really mean? In this video Emerson explores how even the most hardened criminals in a US prison were successfully rehabilitated by one warden who believed in treating them with unconditional respect. But what does this mean for us in our marriages? Is it possible to confront and establish boundaries while still showing our spouse unconditional positive regard? Join Emerson as he delves into this thought-provoking topic.

Questions to Consider

What does unconditional mean to you, and how can you apply it in your relationships?
How can you balance honest confrontation and establishing boundaries while showing unconditional positive regard toward others?
Can you think of a time when you received unconditional respect from someone else, and how did it impact you?
How does the idea of treating others with unconditional positive regard challenge your assumptions about respect and deservingness?

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What Do I Do When I Know My Child is Provoking Me to Anger?

There are challenges parents face when their children provoke them to anger but it is critical to respond with wisdom and grace. Emerson explores the concept of not provoking children to anger, draws from biblical references, and highlights the need for emotional control and composed anger in parenting.

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How Can You Use the Power of Respect Talk to Get Your Spouse to Attend the Love and Respect Marriage Conference?

Learn how to get your husband to attend a marriage conference and improve your relationship by using the "mother tongue of men." Emerson gives an example of how you can discover the power of respect talk.

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Did You Have Doubt And Obstacles When You First Launched Love And Respect?

Emerson shares his personal experience of questioning God's direction and wondering if he had made a mistake in launching Love and Respect Ministries. He discusses the difference between God's unique will and his universal will, finding comfort in God's universal will even when unsure about his unique leading.

Christian Life

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As God’s Image Bearer, How Do I Overcome My Negative Self-Image And Feelings Of Worthlessness?

Emerson discusses the significance of being created in the image of God, emphasizing our intrinsic worth and potential as image bearers. He reflects on scriptures that underscore our unique qualities as eternal beings and the importance of embracing God's view of our worth, despite struggles with self-image.

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